DO NO-THING (STOP!)

Reading time: 6 minutesThinking time: Take as long as you wish She's sitting in front of me. Frustrated. Crying being much closer to her than laughing. "They simply don't take the time to get to know me," she says, "never before have I had such negative feedback. It's a stab in in the back. I… Continue reading DO NO-THING (STOP!)

THE KNOWING DOING GAP

Reading time: 5 minutesThinking time: take as long as you wish 'Just do it doesn't exist', something I tell my coaching clients on a very regular basis. You could say this is definitely one of my favourite quotes. There is a huge and important difference between knowing what to do, and actually doing it. Think… Continue reading THE KNOWING DOING GAP

WHY COVID-19 MAKES YOU LEAN TOWARDS YOUR LIMITING SURVIVAL STRATEGY

Reading time: 2 minutesThinking time: take as much as you need Crises and survival strategies. Sounds like a perfectly logical combination, right? I guess there's no need to argue on that. The only question is: is your survival strategy empowering or self-limiting? I'm pretty sure, if you chose without paying attention, you picked the wrong… Continue reading WHY COVID-19 MAKES YOU LEAN TOWARDS YOUR LIMITING SURVIVAL STRATEGY

OLD SKOOL

Reading time (in minutes): 2 Thinking time (in minutes): At least 5 (I hope) "Hi, it's mom" "I can see that, mom" No matter how 'hip' and up with my time I do believe to be, sometimes one just can't deny the years of age. Especially when it comes down to IT (what cloud?) and… Continue reading OLD SKOOL

FOCUS

Reading time (in minutes): 2 Thinking time (in minutes): At least 5 "If you want other consequences, you simply need to make a different choice" - Credits to Charles "Why aren't you writing anymore?" I was asked lately. "I always loved reading your blogs and posts." I can't say it took me by surprise, because… Continue reading FOCUS

DE PARABEL VAN DE BARMHARTIGE SAMARITAAN

Leestijd: 2 minuten   Los van het feit dat ik als Vlaamse Katholiek ben opgevoed, heeft deze post op zich niet zozeer met geloof te maken. In alle eerlijkheid, ik moest het verhaal ook even opnieuw nalezen. Hoe een man overvallen werd door rovers en daarna half dood en - naakt langs de kant van… Continue reading DE PARABEL VAN DE BARMHARTIGE SAMARITAAN

BEN JIJ AL UIT DE KAST?

Leestijd: 2 minuten   In Amsterdam is de Canal Parade net achter de rug. Een hoogdag voor de LHBT community. Met als thema voor 2018 ‘Heroes’, als in mensen die het voortouw nemen, ergens voor staan en dit ook in het openbaar uitdragen. Ik kan er met bewondering naar kijken. Ondanks de struggle. Hoe mensen… Continue reading BEN JIJ AL UIT DE KAST?

A WOMAN WITH A MISSION!

Reading time: 3 minutes   It’s on my personal vision board for 2018. In between a picture of a breath taking turquoise lagoon with white sandy beaches and Tony Robbins: “A woman with a mission!” Small, cyan blue letters on a white background. If you’d have to find it you’d have to look for it… Continue reading A WOMAN WITH A MISSION!